I'm living in Italy for a while.
As of this writing, we have just finished the first two weeks in Rome and the contrast with life in the United States is dizzying. The Eternal City is a cauldron of contradictions: intense beauty, ancient ruins and immense style versus unchecked litter, "optional" traffic lights, absurd bureaucracy and a cacophony of tourists and locals vying for attention.
It is chaos.
Contrasting with the chaos, however, is an almost universal shrugging of the shoulders. Rather than stay perpetually angry, Romans generally accept that there isn't much they can control in their lives in this crazy city, so they just live as beautifully as they can. They often start their days at a later hour than we do. They eat long, multicourse meals, wear stylish clothes and spend precious time visiting friends and family. Restaurants never hurry you out the door.
A friend here offers a fine example of the prevalent attitudes. She owns a men's …